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If I accompanied him in these activities, we got to spend time together.At times, because my schedule could not always accommodate his changing hours and sparse availability, I wouldn’t see him for a couple of weeks or more.I saw him last in May which was almost four months ago.I know that he loves his job and that he is going to have to be in residency for a total of at least four years. I can deal with not seeing him for a couple of months but after a couple of months it starts to get really hard.During these times, I would read my past journal entries, searching for the relationship that so often seemed out of reach.Our first date was meeting for brunch on his one day off that month.
His reply seemed to say it all, “I’m too tired and have to work tonight.” That was the last time we spoke.
A pattern emerged of frequently waiting for him to get off work, never knowing when that would be, cold dinners waiting at home, and communication breakdowns increasing.