Greeks dating non greeks
I agree, maybe the reason that he doesn't like Greeks and Greek Life is just because he has not seen or experience it first hand.Maybe if he meets your sisters he'll get used to the fact that there are other things in your life, and these things help make you who you are. As to him changing the topic on you, I think that you should sit him down one day and not give him the option to change the topic and you should take this opportunity to find out why he has such a deep dislike for sororities.Its as bad as threatening the relationship, I'll break up with you if . I believe 33girl hit it right on the head when she said to bring him around your friends. He might have more of a problem with the word, it hits a trigger in his psyche. But if he's kind of immature he'll do it anyway got to love us men . I brought him around to meet my sisters..he showed a cold, hard exterior to them which was totally unknown and new to me..that, through five years of knowing him i never ever saw!!Also bring him around other Greek that you know outside your group. If he demurrs or gives you the standard silly Greek thing line, give him your best quiet puzzled look and ask him, "well if you don't want to help starving children, or don't have time that's fine, but please don't use the reason that you won't help because Theta's are trying to help." I would feel abashed and help if someone said that to me . The bad part is that me and him used to be really good friends..I guess, after this experience with him...i have discoverd that I never really truly knew him.My ex, who is still one of my best friends, was the biggest anti-Greek on earth (one of those hideous student newspaper letter-writers) until he got to know my sisters and became a fixture at our house.He had to eat every anti-Greek word he ever said with salt, pepper and mustard!!It sounds like he is objecting to the IDEA of Greek life without getting to know the actual people.If he won't even try doing that, then is when I would reconsider the relationship with him.
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On the good side though, I have now started to casually see a Pike--who is also a good friend of mine..I love all the Pikes at my school, just great guys in general!
And he is very understanding of my sorority duties.
I think it's safe to say that many college students find themselves in that situation. The guy whom I am dating right now, and really like right now for the most part(and is also a close friend) does not respect the idea of a sorority.
True, I've given up some things for other things, and I don't know if this'll work for anyone else except for me, but first and foremost I only take in what I can handle. I LOVE my sorority, Kappa Alpha Theta, and it's really hard for me to choose whether or not to keep on liking him so much or not.He just has a very negative view of Greek life in general, based on his THREE sisters' negative experiences with Greek Life. I mean, he is so great except when we discuss Greek life. I can understand that he has negative views about the system, especially if his loved ones had bad experiences, but does he disrespect your sorority sisters in any way? I take great offense when people put down my family (both blood and sorority).